I consider myself pretty adventurous, but even the most Charlotte-y among us might find the questions here pretty tame.
It's set up in the classic truth-or dare-format: Enter your own name and the name of your partner (you can include more than two players, which is very forward-thinking of the developers) and get the option of a task to perform or a secret to divulge. Dirty Couple GameĪwkward name syntax aside, this is a perfect early-relationship game-like an icebreaker for new couples. While I don’t know if we’ll ever make that a reality, being able to share the fantasy led to bed-breakingly great sex and left me way more open to discussing my desires. After he read a story about a couple having a threesome, he told me how much he would love to watch me get it on with another lady. I’ve always had fantasies about being with another woman, but I was worried sharing them with my husband might make him feel insecure. And more than that, it gave us a whole new way to communicate our desires. Hubby and I found that reading stories privately, then sending each other links to the ones that turned us on was seriously hot. The flavor varies from characters who have sweet, vanilla sex, to more hardcore subject matter, like BDSM. The Sex Stories app gives you access to all sorts of exciting, sexually-charged tales from writers around the world. A lot of mainstream porn is graphic, and unless you pay for porn from a reputable site, like XConfessions (from feminist pornographer Erika Lust), it’s hard to know whether or not the people in it were exploited.įor me, reading erotica is the perfect compromise. Watching porn together can be really sexy, but it can also be kind of intense. The only issue: I morphed into Monica from Friends , gunning to finish the game so that I could win, rather than get it on…. For anyone who feels a little shy about admitting what they want in the bedroom (which is perfectly normal), doing so from behind a screen can be easier than saying it out loud. Turns out, he’s more interested in me wearing pigtails than I realized, and he didn’t know how much I love his second-day stubble. It’s competitive, which is always fun, and you learn about your person's innermost desires with questions like, "Do you prefer your partner clean-shaven, or with stubble?" and "Which look is hottest: School Girl, Business Woman, Teacher, or Biker Chick?”Īfter half-a-decade of romantic bliss, I thought I was done with surprises about my husband.